Have you ever heard a saying: "The more self-disciplined a person is, the more free he is"? Why do you need to start paying attention to this one quality that you also have?
Hello, everyone, I am Charles, I am very happy to share with you some of my growth process, I hope this can bring you some inspiration. A few days ago, my friend asked me, why are you always so busy but can handle so many things at the same time? And feeling more refreshed and more relaxed? Then I will share it with you today.
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Many times, we may see/hear that many people have set various goals for themselves, but in the end they are always anticlimactic, with no more content and no news. Every time you are curious about the progress, you will always hear The other party gave various reasons, forcing the forced to give up moving forward. Have you ever had a similar experience? Maybe you need to calm down and reflect, because if this happens frequently, it will seriously affect your own health, "Procrastination will have a negative impact on health, and it will be accompanied by strong self-blame and guilt. feelings, constantly denying and belittling themselves, and even accompanied by anxiety and depression.”The only thing you can control is your own body
Many times, people will always blame the people and things around them for the reason why their lives have not changed substantially, and complain that they do not have enough control, so they cannot effectively improve the quality of life. In fact, in this era of advanced information and full of opportunities, as long as you are good at integrating surrounding resources, set a direction and persist in working hard, you will naturally achieve results. Does it feel like talking nonsense? But it is a wise saying. To achieve the goal, you need to start from the most fundamental, that is, yourself, the only person who can be controlled by you - [yourself]. To successfully change the status quo, there are always opportunities. This is like investing in the stock market. Opportunities can always appear in troubled times. What we lack is not an opportunity, but self-discipline, a reason for us to continue to be serious. If a person can't even control his own body, it is impossible to control his own life. I remember what Warren Buffett once said: "If you can't discipline yourself in small things, you probably can't discipline yourself in big things."
Why do you feel less and less confident?
Looking back now, I have had a similar experience. At that time, I hoped to own a hair salon of my own and realize my goal of being my own boss. Therefore, I hoped that through simple hard work If you make money, you can achieve the goal of opening a store. But after a long time, I realized that I could not accumulate much money. Gradually, I became less and less confident, and less and less afraid to face the people around me. Then the strong sense of self-blame and anxiety followed. Even deviated from the main business and worked for money, and finally the goal was lost, and nothing could be accomplished, which made me constantly deny and belittle myself for a long time... Now that I think about it, as long as I knew how to set small goals at that time , be self-disciplined enough and continue to spend time improving technology, learning how to expand business, making myself more confident and honest. When I gain the trust of investors, I will naturally achieve my goals.In the end, I came to a conclusion, " Many times the reason for unsatisfactory life is not that I am not worthy of the life I want, but because I have never worked hard in the right direction."
The more self-disciplined people are, the easier it is to achieve their goals
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Back to reality, if you really want to achieve something for yourself, many times you will find that it is not based on unconstrained ideas, different or novel ideas can be easily achieved. To achieve big goals in this era, it is often necessary to accumulate knowledge continuously, do every little thing well, and complete every small goal continuously and earnestly. I understand that this process is quite tedious in many cases, but The good news is that every time you complete these small goals, you will have a great sense of accomplishment, you will feel very satisfied, and you will be surprised to find that you also have the ability to complete the goals, and the good mood of the day begins like this La! Complete small goals every day and improve by 1%, and you will finally find that achieving big goals is not as difficult as you imagined.Summarize
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In the end, I would like to say to all caring people, don’t miss the once-in-a-lifetime opportunity. In this day and age, what we compete for is no longer how unique you are or how powerful your ideas are. No matter how powerful the idea is, as soon as you connect to the Internet, there will be an even more powerful idea than yourself in the next second, how embarrassing it is! The competition in the era of big data is whether you can continue to self-discipline to complete the smallest unit in the right direction of achieving the big goal without being affected by various external information, and become the most trustworthy and most reliable in people's hearts. Object. The more self-disciplined and confident you are, the more free you will be in the end no matter what aspect you are in!Well, the above is the content shared with you today. I hope you can gain something from reading MEETAGAINs articles. Don't forget to subscribe, leave a message, and share. If you enjoy MEETAGAINs and would like to support independent publishers, please consider sponsoring/supporting. If you are interested, you can refer to these articles:
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